My sex life in Helsinki hasn’t been as great as I expected.
I’ve been struggling with pickup, mostly with hooking girls attention.
Overall, if I think about pickup and my results
I feel like I have failed for the last year.
Still intermediate results with girls.
I have a solid ground to build on. The basics are there but they aren’t really converting into results at the moment.
To be frank I’m a bit puzzled on how difficult it has been the last month here in Helsinki.
It is difficult for me to understand how is it possible that I had better results with girls 3 years ago.
Sure, I always pushed for the close like a predator.
Sure, I was an approach machine. Always going and opening conversations.
Sure, it was more important to me back then and I gave it more thought and effort.
But still, I should be better at this point than I was three years ago.
No question about it.
The only reason I can make for my results is that I am just rusty and a bit out of practice.
And if that is the reason, then it is shocking what a great difference momentum can make.
Sure, I have things to fix in my game:
1. Show more sexuality.
2. Turn on the emotional communication a bit more. Communicate intensely.
3. Flirt more by using playful teases and challenging.
Often the hardest thing isn’t fixing errors it is knowing which errors I am making.
Anyway. I can see myself getting a little better as I go out. I just need to recondition this muscle and I should be better than I have ever been.
Being on my best level sounds damn dangerous for the girls in Latvia.
I’m coming over 9.8.2016 😉